CAPE TOWN - Stand tall Siya Kolisi. Stand your ground and speak up when the situation demands that the leader of the Springboks won’t be silenced.
Kolisi’s charm to many in the international media was always his perceived shyness and an attitude the world rugby media often described as “respectful” and “non-confrontational”.
Kolisi was the nice guy, and referees ran roughshod over him.
It all changed in the British & Irish Lions series for Kolisi and the Springboks when 2019 World Cup-winning coach and National Director of Rugby Rassie Erasmus released a 62-minute video highlighting 26 instances of Australian referee Nic Berry getting it wrong against the Springboks.
Erasmus also emphasised, by way of clips, how Kolisi was disrespected and how Berry refused to entertain Kolisi as the captain of a national team.
Why did Kolisi, a World Cup-winning captain, not get the same respect as the Lions captain Alun Wyn Jones? Was it because Kolisi was deemed timid in his approach, or was it because he was black and Jones was white?
Whatever Berry’s reasons, the Siya Kolisi who fronted the media a day before the second Test and a day after Erasmus released the video, was a leader who had found his voice and used the media platform to speak his truth.
He said he felt disrespected and that his opponent had been treated differently. Kolisi made it clear he would not tolerate it again, and his Springboks would no longer be the nice guys who just sucked up every on-field decision that was blatantly incorrectly ruled against them.
Erasmus trusted Kolisi, the player and the captain, like no coach in South Africa ever has. He was insistent Kolisi was his No 1 choice as a flanker and his No 1 choice as a captain, and Erasmus’s belief also came packaged with a mentoring that included challenging the match officials with rugby science, meaning questioning on the basis of knowing the laws and highlighting that they had been incorrectly applied or interpreted.
This is what Kolisi has done with consistency ever since Berry did the dirty on him in the first Test against the Lions, and he has the full backing of his teammates, Bok coach Jacques Nienaber and Erasmus, in his capacity as National Director of Rugby.
But no sooner has Kolisi stood tall, than he has been labelled “annoying” and a leader suffering from a “persecution complex".
“A persecution complex revealed itself earlier this year, via Kolisi’s complaints of not receiving as much respect as Jones from the referee, while the Rassie Erasmus video only furthered that sense of perceived injustice,” headlined WalesOnline. “At times, that ‘world against us’ mentality showed through from Kolisi as he struggled to get to grips with referee Paul Williams.”
The international media clearly liked Kolisi a lot more when he shut up, retreated and did what he was told to do by the referee. They were in love with an apologetic Kolisi persona; not so the unapologetic leader of the Springboks.
Kolisi, in the Lions series, found his form and he found his voice. He has never led as magnificently as he has since that first Test, and he is playing the best international rugby of his career.
The humility is still there in how he interacts with the media, but the confidence he is showing as a leader on the field is making referees very uncomfortable – and rightly so when he is applying his knowledge of the laws in his questioning.
It is not petulance, arrogance or the actions of a man with a persecution complex. It is simply a leader of men, leading his men and doing so from the front.
Siya Kolisi has challenged referee prejudice, and by doing so he is challenging a far greater social prejudice in rugby.